It’s been a long time, world! You all have no idea how much I’ve missed blogging and just venting without all the bullshit that comes with social media. I don’t know if it’s just me or if I simply attract the worst in people. Regardless, on social media, when you vent or talk about your issues or whats on your mind, people call you “negative” or tell you how you “shouldn’t put your business out there”. Like, I’m sorry, I wasn’t aware that I couldn’t put what I wanted on my own profile. I had no idea that my post, on my profile, had any effect on anyone else. Like seriously. Give me a break.
With blogging though, you don’t get that. At least I never did. It was my space where I could vent and talk and just… I was allowed to have feelings that I otherwise wasn’t allowed to have. Realistically, you talk to yourself and people look at you oddly. You post on social media and people complain. A blog is a “safe spot” for lack of better terms. It’s a spot for me, myself, and I. If others read it, good for them! If they don’t, that’s okay too, because at the end of the day, it’s not for them. It’s for me.
I’m so thankful to have my blog back, on my domain. I soent four years waiting for this domain to be listed as available again and by a fluke, I saw that it was! I considered over the years, creating a new blog, or just getting a new extension for this domain, but none of them fit right. They simply weren’t the same. This is my site and I ove it. I couldn’t imagine my blog anywhere else.
I have also completely rewritten the site and mistress sections as well, if you would like to check them out! I have the entire story of how I lost and got back my domain there as well. It was a happy moment! Like, you have no idea! Lol I am still doing touch ups and updates around the website. So I do ask for patience while I get that done though I don’t expect it’ll take me long. I’ve finished most of it already. If you see anything outdated, any errors, etc, do please let me know! I’d greatly appreciate it!